Loving the Unlovable
During Plugged-In KTown (middle school youth group) I was announcing the overnighter we are doing during Christmas break. They asked who was going to be there and I said that it was open to any middle schooler, so they could invite their friends from school. The response I got was pretty interesting. Almost in unison the kids said that they did not want to invite their friends. I asked them why and it was because that they didn’t like most of the people at their school. Even some of their “friends”.
This wouldn’t normally surprise me for students to dislike peers they go to school with. I remember not liking kids in middle school, but these kids claim to not like some of their “friends” and they all claim to be Christians as well. However, after a recent survey I did of all of our kids, about 95% of them believe the following about God:
“I believe that there is a God, and that He loves me, but he doesn’t really work in my life.”
So in response to both of those issues I started our lesson series on the two greatest commandments: loving God and loving our neighbors. We’re starting with the story of the good samaritan. For anyone who is not familiar with the story here is the reader’s digest version:
A man is beaten to a pulp and laying in a ditch. A couple people whom you would expect to help the man pass by him without doing anything. A Samaritan (effectively an enemy of this man) passes by and sees the man laying there. He helps him, bandages him up, takes him to an inn, pays for it, and as he’s leaving tells the innkeeper that he will be back to pay for any expenses that the injured man incurs there.
This story was told in response to the religious leaders’ question of, “Who is my neighbor?” Apparently we are supposed to love everyone, even those we are hated by (or hate for that matter). So I told my students, if you want to see God working in your life, try loving people who are unlovable. The first step i gave them this week is to genuinely say, “Hi” and “How are you” to someone that you do not like and remember that EVERYONE is made in the image of God, and that makes all of us worth loving.

